Over the last couple of weeks, I have been sharing with you the unique elemental traits of SPARK. So far, I have covered the importance of Service and Purpose in our pursuit of a life of significance.
This week we will embed ourselves in the third element – Attraction.
The Attraction Quotient
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it’s easy to lose sight of the unique essence we all possess. One that is fully equipped to propel us toward a life filled with virtuous success and greater significance. Amidst the chaos, it’s crucial we grasp this magnetic force within and use its transformative power to focus on cultivating a life of balanced and purposeful achievement.
Attraction being the third element, also functions within the third quotient. This quotient is made up of some key areas of concentration. Today, I will share three important fundamentals:
1. Activity Impact (AI):
To be completely focused on achieving peak results and significance in an endeavour, it is important to avoid getting caught up in an activity trap. While some may view a long list of daily activities as a testament to hard work or job security, consistently getting caught up in routine tasks exposes us to obsolescence. Much like the ‘Why’ is more important than the ‘How’, aiming to produce max impact from an essential activity will always yield greater value than simply aiming to complete many delegated tasks on a task list. Activity Impact, life’s true AI tool, is akin to flipping the On switch to attract optimal functionality. With the present as our only gift, taking action becomes the key to making the most of it.
2. Attraction Affirmation:
To help us stay on task, and more importantly, to achieve positive results, we have to truly believe that we are both capable and worthy of fulfilment and abundance. But, how do we ensure the universe knows that we are ready, willing and able? Well, it will hear us loud and proud when we recite our clearly aligned rally cry loudly twice a day – once when we wake up and once before bed. This rallying cry will be our Attraction Affirmation and will empower our being to help us manifest and attract the prosperity we seek. This powerful ritual sharpens our focus, aligns our energies, and propels us towards our aspirations.
3. Living Magnet:
Now that we have refocused our goals to optimizing impact behind a daily rally cry, we must now multiply our personal value manifold in all aspects of our life. As my co-author, Brian Tracy once said, “You are a living magnet. What you attract into your life is in harmony with your dominant thoughts”. In order to be a living magnet within the SPARK ecosystem, the key is to multiply personal values in a 360 degree view—not just accumulating wealth or accolades for one self, but embodying qualities that inherently attract others, through kindness, steadfastness, and authenticity. Enhancing intrinsic worth transforms us into irresistible forces, drawing in positivity and opportunities. Enhancing intrinsic worth transforms us into irresistible forces, drawing in positivity and opportunities.
In essence, rekindling your inner SPARK is not a passive journey—it’s an intentional and dynamic process. The Attraction Quotient serves as a compass, guiding us away from the mundane and towards a life that radiates purpose and significance. By embracing these principles, you will unlock the latent potential within, becoming a beacon of attraction in every sphere of your existence.
In my next post for this series, I will concentrate on ‘Resilience’, the fourth element in the SPARK table. Having the mental fortitude to invite change for the better, and to overcome the temptations and barriers that often get in the way of us realizing this change is crucially important on our road to finding significance.
If this topic is something you are open to learning more about, I will be diving much deeper into it, and other valuable secrets to living your best life with SPARK, at my FREE live webinar on 28th February 2024. Click here to register for this 100% free webinar: Ignite Your SPARK: Lead with Significance & Impact.
See you there!