When others hurt us we hold the grudge as a badge of honour and end up paying a bigger price of loss of peace of mind.
Instead, if we forgive wholeheartedly, we let go of all future hurt and loss of energy. Also when you can forgive others you can also forgive yourself.
What stops us? Something called negative ego……. which makes us ask the question: “how dare they do this to me?”
I will teach them a lesson! In the end, we are the ones who get taught a lesson.
The key lesson here is forgiving others is tantamount to forgiving self!