Most of us judge others based on who we are, not who they are. We think we know a lot about others when we still have not figured out ourselves. It is so difficult to know oneself and almost impossible to really know others.
If we keep judging others adversely, we need to look deeper. We may find that what we are seeing in others, maybe a reflection of who we are.
Most people have a good side and not so good side. What do we notice more? If we focus on the good in others, it also reflects the good in us. When you see beauty, you are beauty!
The side benefit of seeing good in others is that we attract the good in them and we feel better when we look at the positive side of other people.