Going with the flow is hard, especially for people whose lives are so structured with every minute fully accounted for. Also, it is hard to trust the flow to be in the best interest for your life.
Yet, if you are very clear about your goals and consistently remind yourself of them, the attraction towards them is powerful.
The dilemma arises on whether you are the master of your destiny, or whether the flow is. You are the master of your actions and your thoughts, but you cannot ignore the support the Universe provides.
Every situation, good or bad, leads you to an outcome; you become a magnet attracting circumstances and situations when your thoughts, actions and faith align!