The respect you receive from others is determined by the respect you have for yourself. It is hard to imagine that someone else will have a higher respect for you than you have for yourself.
Begin by looking at all your good qualities and express gratitude. Next respect others. If others show disrespect to you ignore them or choose not to associate with them.
The respect you receive from others is a reflection of self respect. The deeper your self respect, the deeper the respect you will receive from others.