Our children need our quality time and love. However, when our children get older, it becomes a rarity to get one-on-one time with them. They are either in another city or are very busy or have other priorities (like friends!).
So, when you get a chance to have some one-on-one quality time with them, there are very few excuses, if any, to miss that.
If you miss that opportunity, it will take a long time to get it back.