When you make life just about you, your processing of information, events and interactions all unfold around you. This makes your ego come in the way leading to disappointments, setbacks and frustrations.
However, if you make the interactions with others about them instead of you, your focus shifts to making the dialogue revolve around the other person’s needs and paradigms. This approach usually makes you a better communicator creating a deeper satisfying discussion.
Next time you interact with someone, remember: It’s not about you, it’s about the other!