When you make life just about you, your processing of information, events and interactions all unfold around you. This makes your ego come in the way causing disappointments, setbacks and frustrations.
However, if you make the interactions with others about them instead of you, your focus shifts to making the dialogue revolve around the other person’s needs and paradigms. This approach usually makes you a better communicator and also creates a deeper satisfying discussion.
Next time you interact with someone, remember: It’s not about you, make it about him or her!